BB Torch :: Can't Copy Data & Settings From Old One To New One

Been waiting for my Torch to arrive (my first own BB) Have been using friends old Bold and had it all set up with my email, contacts etc. (never went via my Mac). So was all ready to copy data & settings - firstly hit the problem of not being able to use mini-CD for BB User Tools with my Mac - so downloaded it from internet as well as BB Desktop Software 6.Despite the basic printed instructions which came with my Torch telling me I would get a Dialog box with the option to "copy Data and settings from another device" - there appears to be no such option available. The options seem very limited. My friends who lent me the Bold keep talking about using Desktop Manager and certainly so many posts I read here mention it - but it doesn't seem to exist on the software I have.