IPhone :: Jailbreak Multitasking IOS4 - Drawer Appears Empty

when i doublepress the home button and the multitasking drawer opens up, it appears to be empty. i can tell this is a problem because when i use sbsettings and check the running processes, i see many apps are still running. at the very least i should see ipod controls in the drawer.this wasnt always the case, i know that right when i finished jailbreaking (before i synced all my apps over itunes) i did see ipod controls and sms in the drawer (those were the only 2 apps i tried before doing that initial sync). i then synced over any apps i had but failed to install anything that was from installous (depending on appsync). that was expected. i think (not sure really) that when the official apps loaded i was still able to have apps appear in the multitasking drawer. i think installed aptbackup from cydia and tried to restore all. i manually chose installous and appsync 4.0 from cydia because i noticed that they didnt install after the restore all. i then synced again with itunes. now i got all my installous apps back on the phone. this is when i checked the multitasking drawer again and i didnt have any icons! so i am going to assume its one of the cydia packages thats giving me this issue. i was hoping someone here might have a clue as to which package might cause this. i got a list of all my packages i am sharing below:
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apr-lib
apt
apt7
apt7-key
apt7-lib
apt7-ssl
backgrounder
base
bash
berkeleydb
bigboss
bzip2
com.bigboss.aptbackup
com.chrissoftware.whatsnext
com.ericasadun.utilities
com.hackulo.us.installous
com.hackulo.us.sourcegui
com.planet-iphones.drakefindyourlove
com.saurik.privacy
com.seankovacs.gvmobile
com.theme.lush
com.xsellize.updatr
com.zdziarski.nesapp
coreutils
coreutils-bin
curl
cydia
cydia-sources
darwintools
diffutils
diskdev-cmds
dpkg
essential
eu.heinelt.ifile
expat
file-cmds
file2mail
findutils
firmware
firmware-sbin
gawk
gnupg
grep
gsc.accelerometer
gsc.accessibility
gsc.all-features
gsc.app-store
gsc.application-installation
gsc.armv6
gsc.armv7
gsc.auto-focus-camera
gsc.bluetooth
gsc.cellular-data
gsc.contains-cellular-radio
gsc.encode-aac
gsc.encrypted-data-partition
gsc.fcc-logos-via-software
gsc.gas-gauge-battery
gsc.gps
gsc.h264-encoder
gsc.hiccough-interval
gsc.homescreen-wallpaper
gsc.hw-encode-snapshots
gsc.international-settings
gsc.io-surface-backed-images
gsc.launch-applications-while-animating
gsc.load-thumbnails-while-scrolling
gsc.location-services
gsc.magnetometer
gsc.microphone
gsc.mms
gsc.multitasking
gsc.music-store
gsc.nike-ipod
gsc.not-green-tea
gsc.opengles-1
gsc.opengles-2
gsc.peer-peer
gsc.proximity-sensor
gsc.ringer-switch
gsc.sms
gsc.stand-alone-contacts
gsc.still-camera
gsc.telephony
gsc.telephony-maximum-generation
gsc.tv-out-crossfade
gsc.unified-ipod
gsc.video-camera
gsc.voice-control
gsc.voip
gsc.volume-buttons
gsc.wifi
gsc.Internet
gsc.Internet-plugin
gzip
ispazio.net
jp.ashikase.kirikae
libactivator
libffi
libhide
libxml2
libxml2-lib
lzma
mobilesubstrate
mobileterminal
modmyifone
ncurses
net.scott-wallace.iphone.appbackup
network-cmds
odcctools
openssh
openssl
p7zip
pam
pam-modules
pcre
pincrush
preferenceloader
profile.d
pyobjc
python
readline
saurik
sbsettings
sbsettingstoggles
sed
setuptools
shell-cmds
sqlite3
sqlite3-lib
system-cmds
tar
uicaboodle.py
uikittools
ultrasn0w
unrar
unzip
us.hackulo.appsync31
us.hackulo.appsync40
us.hackulo.security
uuid
winterboard
yellowsn0w.com
zip
zodttd
edit: i just noticed that the package for appsync31 looks like its still installed which is probably a bad thing. when i go through cydia it is not installed, this is the output of dpkg so i trust that this is accurate. any idea of how to remove that package without cydia?

edit 2: now i'm not really sure what is going on with that package, i am trying to use dpkg to remove it but this is what i get when i try to find out the status of that package

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**********-iphone:~ root# dpkg -s us.hackulo.appsync31
package: us.hackulo.appsync31
status: install ok not-installed